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Advice, Short & Sweet

The chapters I've read and reflected on for the past couple of days had good advice that stood out to me here and there. I noticed an overriding theme that wisdom comes through controlling our hearts, reactions, and in checking how we relate with other people. Below is a list of verses that were key for me.
  • Proverbs 16 gives good instruction on having wisdom over your emotions and spirit.
    • 16:2: This verse tells us that the Lord weighs our spirit. It's not enough to do the right things. God wants our motivations to be pure and righteous too.
    • 16:20: Here we see that using wisdom to handle the issues we face will bring about good results. We also learn that trusting in God, will bring us happiness.
    • 16:32: Here is encouragement to temper our anger. Don't let it fly off the handle. God tells us that controlling our angry emotions and spirit makes us strong.
  • Proverbs 17 gives good instruction on having wisdom in how we treat each other.
    • 17:15: We should treat each other with justice. It is evil to justify the actions of wicked people and speak negatively about the actions of good people.
    • 17:26: Similarly, we should not punish people and leaders who do good.
    • 17:28: There is wisdom in remaining quiet and just listening. When we rush to provide answers (because we want to be helpful) we can come to wrong conclusions. We are reminded here to take our time.
  • Proverbs 18 gives us a push for relating with people in a positive manner.
    • 18:12: This verse reminds and encourages us to see the value of accepting instruction and correction. With a humble heart, we become teachable and God lets us know that with this attitude, we will receive honor.
    • 18:16: Here is encouragement to allow your gifts to flourish. The gifts/talents you are blessed with will be your gateway to important opportunities and influential people.
    • 18:24: We are made for community - so don't go through life alone! Be friendly and you will have good friends. It's an admirable goal that reaps a lifetime of benefits.

Proverbs 17:28 has been a revelation to me especially when it comes to my work life. I've learned that I come up with great ideas after having a day or two to marinate on an issue. I've learned to be comfortable with the discomfort of not rushing forth with a suggestion on how to fix things right away. I'd love for you to share in the comments the verse or verses here that speak to you too!

Thank you Lord for providing us with specific ways to practice wisdom. Help them become simple and easy and ingrained in our everyday lives. Amen.
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  1. UnknownMarch 27, 2019 at 8:31 AM

    16:32 Always a good reminder to control my temper and to think about the situation before reacting!

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  2. MaureenMarch 29, 2019 at 12:35 PM

    Absolutely! So easy, yet so hard. Thanks for your comment!

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